Chickens wander about, unknowingly stalked by orange kittens.
Pots smoke and steam over open flames. Men in undershirts eye us suspiciously
from doorsteps and flies stir with every step like angry dust clouds. The slums of India are a
spider web of alleyways studded with doors that open to small rooms expected to
house a family.
Jessica, a staff member visiting from our UK base, and I are here to record a video interview with the parents of one of our students.
He was making friends with the gangs when we found him. In three days he'll graduate from our Photoshop and digital design program having cast off his old life, criminal aspirations and all. Two of his teachers, Rohit and Gita, lead us to his parent's home.
Jessica, a staff member visiting from our UK base, and I are here to record a video interview with the parents of one of our students.
He was making friends with the gangs when we found him. In three days he'll graduate from our Photoshop and digital design program having cast off his old life, criminal aspirations and all. Two of his teachers, Rohit and Gita, lead us to his parent's home.
Ten minutes into our
trek and Rohit stops suddenly to look around. He takes in the neighborhood.
"Okay let's go
different ways now. Gita, take Jessica and I'll take Daniel. We'll meet at the
house."
As we take a quick
left turn I ask why we're splitting up.
"I don't want
people noticing us. Sometimes when they see a group of foreigners walking
around they think something is happening and start gathering. That can turn
bad very quickly."
As we continue
through the narrow streets a group of young boys run up to Rohit, shouting to
him in Tamil. He laughs and grabs one by the cheek, giving him a quick shake
before letting him go. The boy reorients himself as his friends hit their knees
in laughter.
"Those kids are
in one of my classes," he says, walking away. "They're great."
Rohit tells me that he himself was once a
student in Oasis' program.
"I was
considering suicide for a long time before I started," he says as casually
as if he were talking about the weather.
And it's no wonder.
Suicide amongst the youth is a massive and common problem in the city. During
Jessica's first week here an 18 year old girl living in her building hung
herself. She left the water running in the shower. Her husband found her.
Rohit tells me more
about his life and upbringing, ending with: "But through Oasis I've found
Christ and now I'm married and I have a daughter."
He smiles and looks
down the road ahead of us. I feel a hope that is often hard to find out here.
It's easy to compare the number of victims against the number of people reached
by Oasis. It's an ocean filled with statistics waiting for you to slip in and drown. But here, now, a
history has been changed. Altered forever. That has to count for something.
We finally arrive at
a bright blue door and wait for Jessica and Gita to catch up.
It's been getting
warmer lately as India enters its summer season. The sun beats down without
humility. A stray dog trots past us
covered in yellow and pink paint; a reluctant participant of today's Holi Day
celebrations.
Once reunited we
make our way up a flight of cement stairs so narrow they would effectively keep
a fat burglar out and barely squeeze into the single-room house. To give some
perspective, the entirety of the space would maybe fill half of an American
bedroom. As we sit on whatever make-shift chairs we can find one of the
daughters materializes holding a tray with metal cups full of Coke. Her sister
follows with spiced cookies. Their father smiles proudly. He took the day off
of work just to talk with us today; no small sacrifice for him and his
family.
"Eat!
Drink!," our host declares. This isn't the first time I've witnessed such
hospitality. No matter how little a family has they will eagerly place it in
front of any random guest who walks through their door. I'm beginning to think
that being inconvenienced by another person is purely a Western concept.
After much discourse
we finally begin the interview. As the parents speak about the changes they've
seen in their son's life, the youngest daughter climbs onto a stool in the background
and starts vigorously picking her nose. The mother is speaking so passionately
and I don't want to interrupt so I just decide to move the girl for the second
take. My camera battery dies before we get the chance so I hope our audience
has a sense of humor.
As we leave, the
entire family comes out to wave us goodbye. The sun is setting and the slums
are quickly becoming unsafe for outsiders. We hurry through the dusty roads and
catch the first rickshaw we see.
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