Wednesday, February 26, 2014
Monday, February 24, 2014
Classes
I trip over a jagged rock sticking three inches out from the earth in the middle of an unpaved street. As I'm catching my balance and wondering what happens when that mistake is made on a motorcycle, Priya calls to me to catch up. I look ahead and see her standing in front of the door to one of our community hubs, hidden down an alley in a town whose name is 15 letters long.
Up a steep and narrow flight of stairs
is a room with 20 or so computers. A few boys and an instructor sit around them
working away on an outdated version of Photoshop. Graphic design is one of the classes
offered at no charge to the boys and girls in the area so that they
can find real work after graduation. The current job placement rate for the center is somewhere around 70%. This is part of Oasis’ holistic approach
to community healing. They understand that human trafficking is only part of
the problem, a symptom really, and if they are going to help a city it will
take radical change on every level.
The boys look and
stare as I close the door behind me. I’m partially used to the staring, having
been what feels like the only white skinned, green eye’d person in India for
two weeks, but it never fails to make me self conscious. Later in the afternoon
when we go to Coffee Day for lunch (their Starbucks equivalent) we wait in line
to order and three feet away a man’s eyes are locked on me. I try hard not to laugh
at the absurdity of it all, but eventually I’m forced to turn away to let out a
bemused grin. It’s a stare that knows you don’t belong. It’s not meant to be
aggressive, but the typical Indian resting expression is not exactly welcoming.
One tourist online dubbed it ‘The Indian Murder Stare’ and it’s easy to see
why. But it always switches to a big grin after introductions are made, usually
followed by a hundred questions about your family.
One of the boys looks
up and says something that sounds like ‘Sweet aim’.
The instructor tells
me he’s asking what my name is.
Daniel, I say.
Instantly the other
boys turn in their chairs and with excited smiles start introducing themselves.
Despite repeating them out loud, the names quickly vaporize in my mind, each
too foreign to attach to anything familiar.
One of the younger
boys in the Microsoft Office class can’t wait to show off a Powerpoint
presentation he’s made on different types of dinosaurs. His hand rests on the
mouse clicking through each slide but his face watches mine waiting to
see…something. What I think? Approval maybe? I don’t know, but I keep saying, “Cool,
very cool” as images of Raptors and T-Rexes slide, flash and dissolve on the
Lenovo monitor. And I mean it-the nine year old in me always loves a good
dinosaur slideshow. We spend a few hours with the kids and I help Priya write a
proposal to expand several hubs.
On the way back our
rickshaw comes to a stop at one of the rare stoplights in Bangalore. They’re so
uncommon that an alarm sounds before the lights change to warn the more
brake-adverse motorists. A few lanes away a sweating, young girl no older than
twelve walks from car to car offering trinkets for sale. Priya points her out
to me.
“She’s one of the
trafficked girls we’re trying to rescue.”
I ask how she knows
her.
“I take this route
every week. I’ve talked to her at this stoplight several times. I told her we
can help her, but she refuses to give me any information about herself. She’s
scared, you can tell. Her handlers are probably watching.”
My brain jams up as
it tries to find something to say, so I just watch her as she pushes a box of
tissues towards a rolled-up window. My thoughts are white noise. This is the
first time I’ve come face to face with what I’ve flown 9000 miles to write about and I can’t get a word out. A loud ringing suddenly fills the streets,
rousing cars and jerking me back from reality. The lights change and our
rickshaw lurches forward to rejoin the river of traffic.
Thursday, February 20, 2014
Mornings
My first few
days here have started fairly early.
I wake up at 6 a.m. because India wakes up at 6 a.m. Every
morning the city comes alive like a thousand babies being born. Noise and chaos
of every sort saturating the air. Engines rev and horns blast. Voices call out
in multiple dialects and trains shake the windows. Despite being on the fourth
floor it sounds like all of Bangalore is right outside.
And yet, strangely,
it’s not annoying. It's exciting in a ‘I can't wait to get down there and join
the cacophony’ sort of way. It’s a constant reminder that every second you stay
in bed you’re missing something worth seeing.
And the mornings here
offer so much to see.
On a nearby roof top
a man wearing only a towel surveys his surroundings, standing amidst his family’s
shirts and saris as they dance on a clothesline. The wind is cool. Steam lifts
itself out of his cup of chai.
In the
backyard of a neighboring building an old woman sits on the floor fanning
flames beneath a giant, covered pot, smoke pouring out and up towards me.
Chickens loiter around her and single rooster cries out to no one in
particular.
Waiting to cross the
road, I see a woman pass by on a Honda moped, her 11 year old daughter in front
with her small hands stretched out towards the handlebars. The mother secretly
helps keep control, smiling proudly as the young girl learns to navigate the
dangerous and uncaring white-water traffic.
Children run
up behind me and Ada, repeating a single word in Hindi, putting their right
hand to their mouth. The same motion every time. They’re asking for money for
food, but the reality is more grim. The gangs who own these children put them
into the streets to bring in an extra income. Instead we give them Oreos or gum
drops, like a tragic twist on Halloween.
A tragic twist on a childhood
A tragic twist on a childhood
Ada’s friend
takes us into town. I ask her if she’s scared to drive in India. “No,” she says calmly while
simultaneously avoiding a head-on collision with an auto rickshaw whose driver
has cut into our lane to avoid a pothole in his. “If you learn to drive in
Bangalore, you can drive anywhere.”
A crowd gathers
around an impromptu fruit market where a man prepares a pile of coconuts for
sale, hacking off their outer shell with a massive, curved blade. The sound of
the steel slamming against wood barely makes it into our car before we speed
out of reach.
I could go on and on
like this. It’s incredible.
Monday, February 17, 2014
Home Away From Home
How did the
rest of my first day go? It ended with me riding with Ada's father on the back of
his motorcycle at night to get Chinese food. And he got the helmet, which I
thought was odd seeing as how I was told this was a hospitable culture.* Anyways
I didn’t die, so on with the post.
Here’s the
place I’ll call home for the next couple months. It’s a cozy little place.
About half of the square footage is made up of the patio which has this amazing
view of the neighborhood where I live. It’s called Cooke Town so if I get Taken
or Taken 2 you can start looking for me there.
Click on for
the grand tour.
Wednesday, February 12, 2014
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